Self-Supportive Touch to Calm Your Mind

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Your body is a living expression of your mind. From communicating emotions through facial expressions and posture to the physical manifestation of more complex psychological issues that can influence our experience of life and lead to injuries or sickness, the body constantly signals the presence of the mind. Tune in to your body to manage stress.

Being mindful of how you carry life experience in your body, such as by pausing now and again through the day to notice your body, can complement a focus on a healthy diet and physical exercise to promote holistic health and manage stress. Even a short pause—such as looking away from work for a few moments, walking between meetings, or waiting in the checkout line—can greatly impact your brain and body. It helps you to think more clearly and see a bigger picture. It can boost feel-good hormones that counteract the build-up of stress hormones and, in the long term, can help you shift even age-old habits of responding to stress and emotional ups and downs.

I’d like to describe an example of a pause you might take, in this case, using a self-supportive touch to tune in to your body and reap these kinds of benefits.

Ground yourself in your body.

Place your hands on your head. Find the best place for each hand, such as front and back or top and bottom, where the back of your neck meets your head. You can also hold both sides of your head. Go with what feels right.

Observe the effects on your thoughts as you hold your head. Touch is an effective connector of mind and body, and this connection can be experienced instantly. Your skin might feel more alive as your body’s senses awaken. This contact can help a busy day’s to-do list slip from your mind as a sense of being more present takes its place.

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Touch is proven to decrease the physiological effects of stress and anxiety. It lowers levels of stress hormones like cortisol, blood pressure, and heart rate and improves immune-system function. Nurturing touch also releases oxytocin, the cuddle or love hormone, which can relax your body and clear your mind.

Here are some more self-holding options for your exploration. They guide you to pay attention to different parts of your body and provide you with constantly available ways to self-support. You could use any of them for stress relief, comfort, or simply to connect with yourself and relax at the end of your day. Try them out to find the ones that you like best.

Self-supportive holds

  • Rub your upper arms.

EFFECT: It raises oxytocin levels and helps you sense your personal boundaries. Another alternative is hugging yourself. You can either follow your natural inclination to wrap your arms around your upper body or slip your hands under your armpits to hold the sides of your ribcage.

  • Hold one or both of your hands over your heart for a few moments.

EFFECT: Mothers and self-nurtures. Putting a hand on your heart while speaking also displays sincerity and can positively influence how others respond to you.

  • Rub your lower back and then hold your knees where it feels best.

EFFECT: Grounds you, energizes your legs and encourages a feeling of “get up and go.”

  • Place your hands in a prayer pose, either touching your chest or with a small space between your hands and chest, whichever feels better to you.
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EFFECT: Centers and hints of prayer—you can say a little prayer for yourself while holding.

  • End by holding your favorite position and notice how you feel compared to before you started.

This is an edited extract from Chapter 1 of The Mindful Body (Rockpool Publishing, 2018) by Noa Belling, which offers practical strategies for building emotional strength and managing stress through body mindfulness. noabelling.com

 

Author
Noa Belling

Noa Belling is a psychotherapist and bestselling author. Her previous books include the international bestseller, The Yoga Handbook, Yoga: A Union of Mind and Body, and Yoga for Ideal Weight and Shape. She holds a master’s degree in somatic psychology, which is a field that incorporates body awareness and physical movement.

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